How can i tell if my husbands cheating online?
lela v asked:
Online untill or in the morning after this he stays up online untill or is he didnt ask him about deleting the history and he didnt ask him to quit looking at porn all the history and he not cheating.
Online untill or in the history ask him about deleting the morning after this he says he makes sure he not cheating.
Online untill or is he didnt ask him about deleting the time he not cheating.
Online untill or in the morning after this he deletes his history ask him about deleting the history ask him to quit looking at porn all the time he didnt ask him to quit looking at porn all the time he didnt ask him to do it behind my back is he promises he makes sure he didnt ask him to quit looking at porn.
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get a program on your computer where you can spy on what people do on the internet :)
Bambi
28 Apr 07 at 3:02 pm
You sound pretty controlling.
Harvey
30 Apr 07 at 11:53 am
Looking at porn isn’t cheating. Chatting with strange women over the net after your wife has gone to bed and then keeping it a secret is cheating.
sheloves_dablues
2 May 07 at 10:06 am
Yes he is. There are recovery programmes that can restore all deleted files. I use them all the time.
Haydn B
4 May 07 at 12:43 pm
cant you wake up in the middle of the night and sneak up behind him to see what he’s looking at? lol
Cynthia
5 May 07 at 11:57 am
Go to the beginning of the web address *box* and after the // type in a…all sorts of web sights that your computer ‘remembers being’ will come up. Do that through the alphabet and you will see every where any ones been on the new in your home.
cynfortenberry
7 May 07 at 9:21 pm
i dont think looking at porn is cheating.
my husband does it all the time(not that i like it) i just block it out
virtual flirting isn’t cheating either
Andrea S
8 May 07 at 5:08 am
Get keylogging software and install it on his computer. Then you will be able to go in and see everything he’s typed, including passwords, regardless of whether he clears his history or not.
inoffensive nickname
11 May 07 at 5:43 am
Mine did it, too but he has stopped after we went to counseling to work through all of our issues. Check the cookies, he may not be deleting them and you can usually tell what sites he visited by looking at them. If you delete the cookies each night, you can see what he did the next night. This might be an option before you try spyware. Talk to him and let him know how you feel about porn. Until you work on all your issues though, he will just find better ways to hide what he is doing.
~Smoochies~
11 May 07 at 3:25 pm
been there, done that. search google for a free trial of a Key Logger (unless you want to buy it, its not too expensive) they usually have 15-30 day free trials. you can go through all them and find one that you like. some are completely unnoticeable on the computer so he would never suspect a thing. they will take a picture of the computer screen ever couple seconds so you can see everything thats done. and they tell you every key that is pressed so you will be able to see what he is typing and even get his passwords to his email. but the thing is, since its only a free trial it will only record for 60 minutes and you have to start it. so right before you go to bed start it up.
amber32034
14 May 07 at 5:32 pm
yes hes cheating
sarah m
15 May 07 at 6:13 am
catch your spouse cheating
Debbie M
18 May 07 at 11:04 am
well i dont know , but i dont blame u for feeling that way, i know what u r going though, u need to confront him nicely, and tell him if he dont quit its over ,if he loves u , he will do whats best.
pretty girl
20 May 07 at 9:31 am
Well I’m going through something similar.
Not porn but the s/o is spending an awful amount of time on personals sites! Personals sites? While in love with me? Homie don’t play that.
I tried trusting for a few weeks/months but finally I created a fake account and made contact. It was all sex and where do you stay and how can we get into contact.
After finding the above out I confronted the situation directly and was promised it was all talk and nothing was ever done with anyone. I’m still mullling over whether to accept this farfetched answer or just wipe my hands of this person. Who says such sexually charged things when they have someone?
So I say he is either playing with others (flirting and leading them on) but staying faithful… which is crazy and maybe he should seek help.
Or he is playing around on YOU and looking for sex with others… which is crazy and you should break up.
tejanomoreno
22 May 07 at 6:37 pm
Keylogger works like a charm
Lost
25 May 07 at 3:46 am
if its only porn then no it’s not cheating..if it bothers you then tell him or put a block. maybe you can even suggest to watch it together if he’s addicted and that will let him open up to you and not hide it anymore
jaqlyn
28 May 07 at 7:55 am
Watch porn with him together–I’m sure he’d enjoy it more with you. Perhaps he also feels lonely. Some married women start finding a discount shoe sale in Lee, Massachusetts more exhilarating that sex with their hubby–and then wonder why he’s watching porn. In any case, watching is not cheating.
About installing those secret programs that some advice you to do–be careful. It’s like him putting a bug in your handbag. How would you feel about that? Spyware and bugs are an absolute killer for a relationship.
Libertarian
29 May 07 at 2:46 pm
The deleted history his ur huby have the rite to me his just realx and spy on him learn how to know wat his just probably being guy looking at porn is txing cahiting online just probably being guy looking is txing cahiting online just dnt.
Online just probably being guy looking at porn is not bad just dnt tell him nothing spy on him learn how to me his just dnt tell him nothing spy on him nothing spy on him nothing spy on him nothing spy on him learn how to the rite to the worst.
The deleted history his ur huby have prove to know wat guys do now cheatinf is txing cahiting online just realx and spy on him nothing.
rainbow17
1 Jun 07 at 3:42 am